Resources

Your Life Story….Ready for coaching? Do this first.

Tuesday, June 21st, 2011

Here is a process that is used with new clients. If that is you, think about it or do it before you make your first sex coaching appointment. What is YOUR life story so far?
Some of the best things I learned from Cheryl Richardson as my coach were these three things….

Guidelines for Clients

Friday, August 28th, 2009

These are Dr. Patti’s Guidelines for working with clients.

Sexual Rights

Thursday, August 27th, 2009

BASIC SEXUAL RIGHTS
Sexual rights are human rights.
From the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, 1978, this still guides us as a statement.

Back It Up: (for EE)

Monday, August 24th, 2009

Excerpted from The Art of Sex Coaching: Expanding Your Practice © Page 111 By Patti Britton (Note that the book is written for therapists, coaches and other professionals working with clients. However, if you are male or his partner with EE, this will be helpful to follow as a step by step process.) BACK IT [...]

On Early Ejaculation

Monday, August 24th, 2009

Concern #2. Early Ejaculation (EE)
EE was, and in some circles still is, known as PE or premature ejaculation. This is another pejorative term I don’t use with my clients. Instead, I label the concern as either early or rapid ejaculation. Premature ejaculation is a judgment call, sending the message: You’ve come too soon and disappointed your partner. A man internalizes that message and feels like a failure in his sexual performance. That’s the last thing he needs. Early or rapid ejaculation sounds more neutral.

Setting Sexual Goals

Thursday, August 20th, 2009

Setting Sexual Goals For Myself

This is an opportunity for you to take time to evaluate where you are sexually and to decide to make some changes. Maybe you want to become a better lover, maybe you want to break free of old bonds and explore new ways of being sexual, maybe you want to begin to date again. Whatever your present situation, YOU have the power to make it better. This worksheet assists you in committing to yourself within designated time periods.

Processing Your Emotions

Thursday, August 20th, 2009

I have almost all couples do this process, and many singles find great value from doing it, too….. You can do a simple one or a novella, and share it with the object of your letter or keep it to yourself. There are many ways to do the process. The most important thing is that you “just do it”, expressing your ‘negative’ emotions to get back in touch with the good ones. Writing a Love Letter will bring you back to what I call peace.

PC Exercises (Kegels)

Thursday, August 20th, 2009

The PC exercises From original ms for The Art of Sex Coaching: Expanding Your Practice © By Patti Britton This is a basic sexual skill that you can integrate into your daily practice, as a male or female: The PC exercises:  Exercising Pubococcygeal muscles or the love muscles (I don’t like to call these exercises [...]

Male Intake Form

Thursday, August 20th, 2009

Brief Sexual History-Male

(This confidential Questionnaire is required by Dr. Patti Britton, Sex Coach.)

Female Intake Form

Thursday, August 20th, 2009

Brief Sexual History-Female

(This confidential Questionnaire is required by Dr. Patti Britton, Sex Coach.)